Force distorts form: Peace is a living form

The same thing happens inside a community. If belonging requires silence, people may stay present while becoming less visible. If peace requires agreement, conflict does not disappear; it moves underground. A quiet room is not necessarily a peaceful room. Peace has more room in it than quiet. It can hold difference without turning difference into a threat.

This is why attention matters. Before asking who is right, we can ask what pressure is operating here. What are we trying to make happen, and what would happen if we stopped forcing it? The question does not excuse harm or remove the need for a clear boundary. It simply separates protection from domination.

A boundary protects the shape of a life. Force tries to reshape another life for our comfort. The two can look similar from a distance, especially when fear is loud. But a boundary says, this is what I will do. Force says, this is what you must become. Learning the difference is a small form of peace-making.

Black Eye Beings is a place for that kind of attention: a place to be seen without being arranged, corrected, or reduced. We can bring our histories here and still leave room for one another. The work is not to make every voice the same. It is to practice forms that let more truth remain in the room.